Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Pass the Parcel Tour

When I was staying in New Plymouth with one of my aunt's former students (or the sister thereof), I was told that I am on a "pass the parcel" tour. I would be the parcel, being shipped from person to person. With one sister in New Plymouth (which supposedly has a beautiful Fuji-esque volcano near it, but I sure didn't see it with all the clouds), a night at a hostel in Waitomo Caves (where I got to see glowworms galore, which were pretty cool), another sister in Hamilton, and she dropped me off today with the brother of one of the parents from the school where I teach. Taught. I wish I could say that I had a lovely collection of stamps on my forehead (or my backpack) from all the passing of the parcel, but alas not. The only thing you might be able to see is the result of all the meals I've been fed. (THREE a day! I don't eat that at home.)

New Plymouth, despite the fact that the mountain was hiding, was lovely. We went for a walk through the lush city park one day, and the next day we headed out of town a bit to the Rhododendron gardens. I do like plants and walking, so I was quite happy.

The Waitomo Caves experience threatened to be pretty beastly at first. It was one of those days where I awoke with a black cloud hovering over my head, and things didn't seem to be going my way all day. The bus dropped me off miles from anywhere. The cafe where I was told I could call for a pick-up was closed. The hostel that I'd booked at was no longer a YHA, so I got no discount. The kitchen of the hostel didn't even have glasses in it. (You had to put down a $10 deposit for cutlery. Bugger that, I have a water bottle.) But the next day I awoke, and, despite the fact that it was absolutely peeing with rain outside, the black cloud had disappeared and all was well. I walked down to the glowworm cave, handed over ridiculous amounts of money for a 45 minute tour of the cave (the only way you could get in), and I got to experience the magical place. (Glowworms are the larva of some fly, which glow to dupe other bugs--quite possibly their cousins-- into flying into their snares and eaten.) The glowworm cavern was like looking at the stars in the sky from a Phantom-of-the-Opera type boat ride. Loved it!

I am now in Hamilton, the fourth largest city in NZ. It's not an overwhelmingly exciting city, but that's okay. Probably like visiting Des Moines. It has it's charm if you look for it. (No, I've not been to Des Moines. Or Iowa. Too many republicans there. (That's for you, Eric.)) There's a river I may go wander along, and this evening I'll be going to see The Taming of the Shrew in the park. Again. I saw it with my hostess last night, but the parcel has been passed today and my new hosts have that on their agenda for tonight, so I told a little fib and said No, I'd not been to anything at the festival, and off we will go. Unless it rains. Although today looks like the first day that it is NOT going to rain! Of course.

Tomorrow I get passed along again to points East.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

It Isn't Easy Being Green

After all the brainwashing that I have tried to do to my students over the years about recycling and being environmentally conscious, after walking or riding to work for 10 years (many days, not all), after volunteering for environmental organizations, I have seriously fallen off the wagon this year, and my carbon footprint is about as bad as it can get. In a 10 day period I will be on 8 different flights. Add four more days, and then it is 10 flights.

Good lord, I am never going to want to see another airplane or airport again!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Wellington

In this year of staying with random contacts, I find that I win some and I lose some. In Wellington, I was supposed to stay with a friend of my aunt, who is a renowned NZ actress (the friend, not my aunt, although she's pretty cool too). After receiving an initial email from this Dame (in the OBE sense, not the Bogart sense) in October saying she looked forward to welcoming me, I got no further responses from her. So I figured that my Wellington experience, which had promised to be a winner, might turn into a loser.

Luckily, not too long ago, a family friend from home said that one of her old college friends lived in Wellington, so I sent off a quick email, and invited myself there. Like all Kiwis (that I have experienced), these people said they would be delighted to have me.

Let me tell you, these few days were seriously in the "I win" column. I was a bit disgruntled initially that they told me to get taxi from the ferry (are there no buses?). I had to shell out $25, and we couldn't even find the house. Her directions gave me the street number of the house opposite, but not theirs. It turns out that the block of flats that we kept driving by in the taxi was actually their house. The first thing I noticed (once out of the rain and inside) was that they had an amazing art collection to go along with their amazing house. The second thing I noticed was that my host (probably about 60) was really, really interesting. I loved that the 30 year old daughter lived in a flat in the basement with her husband, and the 23 year old son was coming in and out. It felt just like home.

In talking with him, Ian, the father, would mention things like, "When I was the head of TV NZ... When I ran the NZ division for Expo 92..." I nodded and smiled and listened to the interesting stories. But on my final day there, when I noticed all of the large framed political cartoons featuring my host, I finally asked him, "Who ARE you???" He said he had thought about it, and that he was NZ's version of Ted Koppel. That would have explained the photographs of him shaking hands with Nelson Mandela and Prince Charles (not at the same time). Huh, go figure. And here I am imposing myself upon them. (No, I'm not going to give out their contact information, for I'm going to keep it all to myself so I can invite myself there again and again!) I had just as much fun with them in Wellington as I had with the lovely little old lady in Sydney! (But they had a puppy to boot, so maybe they win.)

Wellington itself was great. A very liveable city, if a bit steep. (That would be putting it mildly. My calves actually became numb one day walking up the hill to their house.) I had a nice wander around the city for a few days, once getting a bit lost and ending up actually standing in front of the American Embassy, where I was quickly met by a guard who hastened to guide me on my way... away. (Stupid paranoid Americans. The other embassies had no guards running out to meet me as I passed, and Cuba even had their gate standing wide open!)

I went to various museums, including Te Papa, which is their national museum. One of the exhibits was a set of videos of New Zealanders talking about their favorite places. There was one Maori (which is pronounced kind of like 'moldy' here) who talked about his 'fakapapa'. (I eventually found the word written, "whakapapa"-- but remember the /wh/ sounds like /f/-- and it means 'genealogy' or 'family story'.) In the movie, someone said, "When he whakapapas..." I spent the rest of the afternoon (and actually many successive days) saying to myself "fakapapa", for it is just so much fun to say, especially quickly as they do. (If you are feeling blue sometime after I get home, give me a call, and I will just say the word to you a few times, and I'm sure we'll both feel much better.)

I was very sorry to leave Wellington, but I figured if I didn't force myself to leave, I might not ever do so, and I would turn into one of the house guests my family has had who was meant to stay for three weeks and stayed for two months, 8 months, and in one case, about 7 years! (If you haven't seen the film "You Can't Take It With You", you should. I'm pretty sure it is written about my family. I'm the one in the tutu.)

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

pix up

I have managed to get pictures up--and even a little video-- for The Best Place in the World if you want to go back and check it out. But for some reason the video whacked out the spacing, and when I go back to correct it, it seems to take about 45 minutes to think about processing, so you're on your own for the moment in deciphering where paragraphs should begin and end. Sorry!

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Kayaking

Over the weekend I spent three days kayaking on the Tasman Sea in the Abel Tasman Park, at the top of the South Island. At some point during the three days (okay, many times during the three days), I thought that maybe it was a good thing that my two week Outward Bound sea kayaking trip in Costa Rica was canceled.

The day we headed out was a bit blustery. The eight of us were taken in a water taxi (translation: speed boat with all of our kayaks strapped to the back) about an hour up the coast. I apparently had gotten into the booby seat, for everyone else was sitting under a plastic cover, and I was getting thoroughly sprayed as we crashed over every wave. So before we even got into our kayaks, I was soaked. Nothing I could do but laugh, knowing that they would be just as wet as I soon.

We were all in double kayaks, I paired with a retired gentleman (of course) from Sacramento. I was not sure about the fact that he had control of the rudder, and I could do nothing but paddle (which I did, often attempting to steer us as he had us zig-zagging around the sea). (I became quite worried about my partner at camp that evening when he, sounding surprised, said he had met a New Zealander who did NOT like George W. Bush. Wait, you found only one?? Apparently I was saddled with a conservative. Luckily we were too busy wrestling with the elements to be able to talk much.)

We paddled about in a lagoon at first, getting used to the boats, and then headed out through the breaking waves into the high seas and headwind. I don't know if it was raining or not, because there was so much spray. I asked the guide how high these big swells were that we were in, and she estimated, "Um, one and a half or two." That would be meters. Yes, I was out there in a kayak (sitting about two feet out of the water) in seven foot swells. It actually wasn't scary or bad... until about an hour later when it was slightly less rough but still very wavy, and we were going up and down, up and down, up and down. After about three minutes of deep breathing I decided it wasn't worth it to try to fight it off, and I turned to my partner and said "There's a good chance I'm going to be sick in a minute." And I was.

I've only thrown up twice since I was a kid. Once was the one and only evening when I was drunk (four Bloody Marys and a Jaegermeister and Coke-- followed by 12 hours of being ill and swearing that I would NEVER get drunk again, and I haven't, much to the chagrin of many friends over the years. But they always have a designated driver!), and once on a whale watching trip. Apparently I am prone to sea sickness. But, I am happy to say that after I divested myself of my lunch, I felt much better, and got right back to paddling. (I just wish I had brought some Tic Tacs with me!)

Eventually we made it into camp (I'm sure the guide was way more relieved than we were). After putting on all the dry clothes I had (I got to use that long underwear that didn't get used on the Milford Track), I got about the task of setting up my tent. One of the guys on the trip, a self-professed former Boy Scout from England, offered to help me with my tent ("Because it is so much easier and more fun with two," as my grandmother would always say when asking me to help her make beds). Needless to say, it took twice as long to get my tent set up as if I'd done it on my own, and it looked ridiculous. Stupid Boy Scouts.


On the second day the headwind had died down a bit, it was just cloudy rather than rainy, and the swells were only about two feet. And I took the offered Dramamine. Much better. Plus, I got to be in charge of the rudder. Alas, that meant that I had no one to blame but myself as we zig-zagged across the ocean. (I decided that I would rather have a scape goat than control.) The problem was that every time I put my paddle in, I would push down on that foot. Right paddle, right foot. Left paddle, left foot. I guess I was using it as resistance for the mighty stroke I was taking or something. (Luckily the left paddle pushes you right, so the rudder and the stroke were sort of counteracting each other.) Steering must have been taking a lot of concentration, for I realized at one point that I was sitting there with my tongue sticking out of the side of my mouth, which, alas, is what I do when I think really hard. Maybe when I grow up I'll stop doing that....

The final day of the trip was gorgeous, and what we had all signed up for. (Too bad that only three of the eight of us actually had signed up to do all three days. Bummer for those other five.) It was sunny, almost flat seas, and we even had a tailwind to boot. We got to see a seal having breakfast out in the seas (squid, the guide thought), and a little Blue Penguin just bobbing along, looking an awful lot like a black and white (or blue and white, I guess) football with a beak.

I was a little sore in my shoulders yesterday, but nothing too bad, so I've decided to continue to look into sea kayaking trips in Costa Rica after all.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Updated Agenda

We'll see whether I return to the classroom after this year (I hope so), but I can tell you for sure one thing I won't be doing with my life, and that is becoming a travel agent. All this planning has my head completely spinning!!!!!

Just so everyone (mostly my family, but adoring fans as well who like to gaze at maps and think what I must be doing at that moment) has some idea what I'll be doing when, here is the update to my agenda (god help me!):

Tomorrow: Sea Kayak in Abel Tasman for 3 days
16th Feb: Ferry to Wellington. Proceed to impose myself on my North Island contacts
3-8 March: Hike around the far north of NZ
9 March: Fly Aukland to Fiji, Fiji to LA, arrive before I left, hope my friends on the West Coast want to see me for 8 days
17 March: Fly LA to Miami
18 March: Fly Miami to Grand Cayman to meet some teacher friends for Spring Break (WOO HOO, Girls gone wild! Or something.)
22 March: Fly to Miami, then to Guatemala City (don't mention my carbon footprint, please. I will never drive my car again) for a week of volunteering with alums from my college
29 March: Hopefully do a week of Spanish Language school in Antigua, Guatemala (because my Spanish needs some help, for all I can ask for is a kiss and a beer-- and I don't like beer)
4 April: Possibly do a four day sea kayak trip in Costa Rica. Or maybe two weeks of volunteer housebuilding in Costa Rica. (Notice how I switched countries all of a sudden? No, I don't have a plane ticket for that yet.)

AAAAAAAARRRRRRGGG!!!!! I know it probably all seems pretty great to the armchair traveller, but to she who is living it.... AAAARG!!!

By mid May (funds and patience probably both running low) I think I'll be ready to come home. Possibly via Key West.....

And then comes the process of figuring out next year.

I think I need to go lie down for a while.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Best Place, part 2

As if life weren't great enough already here at the Te Nikau Resort, last night there were only two of us in my lodge. I had the downstairs, and Pat (or Jan, or some other cvc name), a 50-something English woman over here to do some WWOOFing (look it up if you don't know what it is), had the upstairs. I put two dunas (alternate spellings: dyne or doona, also known as a duvet or comforter) on the bed, for there was a slight nip in the air, and happily crawled in. The only sound I could hear last night was the ocean.

I was going to get a lift in to the bus at 12:15 today (my bus isn't until 3), and wander about seeing the Pancake Rocks again and maybe walk on a little trail. But when James, the guy who works here and drives people back and forth, suggested not going until 2:30, I agreed heartily.

I bought myself some fresh-baked (still warm) multi-grain bread, took a book (which remained unread), and the rest of the bottle of wine (which, me being me, was still mostly full), and headed down to the beach to have a little picnic and watch the tide come in and go back out again. (Never mind that the sun wasn't yet over the yard arm... I'm on holiday.)

All the while, I kept saying to myself (sometimes out loud), "Life is very, very good."

(This is the first place that I have said to myself that I will DEFINITELY come back to some day. Let me know if you want to join me on the return voyage!)

Monday, February 9, 2009

The Best Place in the World

Since leaving Queenstown, I have been travelling up the west coast of the south island. Clearly I am on the same path as other people from the Milford Track, because in Franz Josef I was at the ATM when I heard someone calling my name (the family from Rhode Island was passing through town), and today while crossing a street in Hokitika I heard my name again (the professor from my college). Small island, small country, small world. I spent two nights in Franz Josef (one of them undisturbed in my bunk), and hiked on a glacier on the day in between. I wasn't really in the mood for it, but when am I going to get the chance to hike on a glacier again? So I forked over lots of money (NZ is expensive with all the fun activities I want to do! Good thing the exchange rate is so good for me), strapped on a pair of crampons (sounds like a tampon made by Crayola), and set off in the rain. (Of course it started to rain as soon as we got to the glacier. Oh well.) It was totally cool (and not just because we were on a stretch of ice the size of Delaware--give or take a few square meters) and I'm glad I did it. Today I got back on the bus (LOTS of buses, but at least they are all narrated, so I find out interesting little tidbits about NZ, like in Maori "wh" is prounounced /f/, where bits of Lord of the Rings was filmed, and that a stag in that paddock over there has "a nice set"... a nice set of what??), and headed up to Punakaiki, home of the Pancake Rocks (layers of limestone which look like a big stack of pancakes). The Rocks were really neat to look at, and if I ever figure out how to upload pictures from the YHA computers, I'll show you! (I may be able to find an internet place in Nelson, where I'll be tomorrow.) I had booked myself into the Te Nikau Retreat, which is a youth hostel associate. It was a bit out of town (what town there is... a visitor's center and two cafes), but they offered pickup. And at $22 NZ (about $12US at the moment), I decided to go for it. Oh my goodness, is all I have to say, closely followed by: 1) You all should come to New Zealand 2) You should come to Punakaiki and 3) You should stay at the Te Nikau retreat!!! It is a series of cabins (all different, ranging from a 'stargazer' wooden tent to a nice cottage) set in the rainforest. So imagine your favorite piece of woods somewhere, then tuck in about 10 cozy little cabins all down little paths, so you can't see any of them from each other. (Add in the smell of muffins baking at the main lodge.) Oh, and put a path at the foot of the steps through the rainforest to the beach. I am staying in an A-frame cabin that has 7 beds on two levels (plus cozy chairs and a couch), it's own little kitchen (which is in a greenhouse... could I love it any more?!) and bathroom. I am going to celebrate this wonderful place by enjoying a nice glass of red wine (I bought a whole bottle from reception!) with my dinner of pasta and sauce (I haven't bought pasta sauce EVER, but when you are cooking for yourself in a different kitchen each night, sometimes you just have to cave). Needless to say, I am immensely happy. (If you are really lucky, I'll be able to upload a little guided tour movie that I made, so check back...)

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Dorm Life

As my aunt only managed to give me one contact on the South Island (as opposed to five on the North Island-- the gall!), I've been staying in lots of Youth Hostels. This is my first experience living in a dorm, as I never went to camp, and in college I managed to have a single room three of four years, and an apartment with only four of us when I was in Vienna.

I have managed to get used to having other people rustle around (earplugs definitely help). I have been tolerant of the smell (a musty, damp, body odory kind of scent). I even accepted the fact that my bed shakes when the person in the other bunk gets in, gets out, or simply rolls over.

But I draw the line at the woman who tried to crawl into my bunk at 2:30 this morning (with me in it, of course). Startled awake when suddenly someone was touching my leg, I let out a resounding "Jesus!" which elicited many apologies from her, and then lots of whispered conversation and giggling in French with the person in the bottom bunk. I can only assume that she had spent the previous four hours (the time since I, like any reasonable person, had gone to bed) drinking herself into a stupor. I have no idea who she was, where she was supposed to be sleeping, or where she ended up going. Nor do I care. She and her friend had cleared out by the time I got up (hopefully full of embarrassment and a nasty hangover).

Then again, maybe she just read my post from yesterday and was trying to make up for it.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

What I Miss

Being someone who loves her rut, there are many things that I thought I would miss this year. The wooden pen that I have used to write in my journal every night since 1990; the ugly grey plastic mug I've had at work since 1993; the bookmark that a student gave to me in 1998. I quickly found that I didn't need these things at all, and that life goes on quite happily without them. I don't mind wearing the same three outfits day after day after day. There aren't even any foods that I miss particularly. (Although the smell of bacon did draw me right into a restaurant the other day.)

However, there are odd things that I do miss. I miss normalcy. I miss my morning routine (begrudgingly get out of bed, go to the bathroom, brush teeth, get dressed, brush hair, go downstairs and scowl at whoever happens to cross my path). I miss my laundry detergent (unscented, leaves no grainy bits on my clothes). I miss my bureau (having clothes actually spread out).

And I miss being touched. Not sensual touch (although I wouldn't say no to that), for it has been ages since I've had a significant other (or semi-significant, or even possibly significant), but the normal everyday touch that happens between friends which says "I know you and I care about you." Any of you who have known me longer than a week have (I guarantee) been touched by me at some point, for I am just a touchy-feely kind of gal. (Any of you who are former students of mine have given me 160 hugs, give or take a few for sick days and snow days.)

I didn't realize I missed being touched-- I wasn't even conscious that it wasn't happening-- until a few days ago on the Track when the professor from my college and his wife each touched my arm on their way to bed. It was so comforting. I've had plenty of handshakes hello and even hugs goodbye, but it is the less-formal human contact that I miss.

That, and a bacon double steakburger with cheese and a junior chocolate shake from Steak 'n Shake.

Friday, February 6, 2009

Milford Track

I just got back from my hike/walk/tramp (depending if you are from the States/England/New Zealand) on the Milford Track. It is reputed to be one of the most spectacular walks in the world. Granted, I haven't been on that many walks around the world, but this was really, really great.

All 46 of us (ranging in age from 21 to early 70s... average age about 55, I'd guess) arrived in Queenstown on Monday for a briefing, which mostly involved being told that we really did need to bring long underwear even though it is mid-summer. They gave us medium-sized packs (along with bag liners, which is just an over sized plastic bag) and told us to report back the next morning. I threw a few things in to my pack (not much, because I didn't want to carry stuff for three days that I didn't need!) and reported for duty on Tuesday morning. We took the bus to Te Anau (I sat next to an older guy from Denver, who was giggling when I told him all the random people I have stayed with this year), had lunch, then a pre-departure picture. I chatted with a family from Rhode Island a bit, and mentioned that, although from the mid-west, I spend my summers in NH. When re-boarding the bus, a man tapped me on my shoulder and asked where in NH, as he goes to NH in the summer too. I didn't recognize the name of the town where he goes, but I DID recognize the name of the town he lives in the rest of the year... Brunswick! It turns out he's a professor at my college. I shouted out a GO U BEARS, gave him a big hug, and hadn't been so happy in a long time. (It is a very small college that no one has heard of, so when I find someone connected to it, I get very excited.)

After lunch we took a boat across Lake Te Anau to the start of the track. There were 20 independent walkers (as opposed to guided, which our group was) as well. They took off first, and we didn't see much of them again, as they stayed in huts further down the track.

The first day's walk was really tough. All .8 miles of it. It took about 15 minutes. It gave us plenty of time to go on a nature walk around the area and get to know each other more. There were about 15 Aussies (all totally insane but lots of fun), 12 Americans, a few Brits, Kiwis, Taiwanese, Japanese, and three Germans. (I did get to sprach some Deutsch, which was amusing given I haven't really spoken German in ages, but appreciated, because two of them didn't speak much English.) After dinner we got up by country groups to introduce ourselves, and we had to sing a song. Seriously. The Aussies went first and were all over that (much to the surprise of the Americans, who only sing under serious duress). The day we started the trip was some Japanese holiday, so their presentation involved one of them donning a demon mask and the others throwing beans at him. Needless to say, it was a lively group. (I actually did sing a song on behalf of the American group. One of my favorites from first grade, which I thought might be appropriate for the trip. "Oh when the rain comes down it cleans up the sky...")

The first real day of the walk was 11 miles of pretty flat terrain, with a quick stop by a swimming hole. The weather was absolutely perfect the whole day. I tramped along with an Aussie girl who was also there on her own.

The second day was the tough one... 9 miles, but with a 1000m hill in the middle of it. One of the German women and I led the group (well, behind one of the guides). Oh yeah, that's right, I led the pack. Going up was easy breezy (and it was very breezy on the top), but coming down wasn't much fun on the knees for me. But again it was an absolutely gorgeous day, so everyone was happy.

Once at the lodge, we took a side trek to Sutherland Falls, which, at 580 meters, is the 5th highest falls in the world (even though it is actually a cascade, I was told). Another quick-- and very chilly-- dip, and then back to the lodge for some well-deserved rest.

The last day, thirteen flat miles, was rainy, but that was okay. It justified bringing all the waterproofs, and it caused all the waterfalls to come out. It was stunning. I walked slower than the other days so that I could take time to appreciate the rain forest that I was walking through. Beech trees, ferns, and moss galore. Truly, truly magnificent.

A quick ferry ride took us from the end of the track (after we wolfed down a scone) to our last lodge. There was a certificate ceremony, of course, which normally I could do without (mine will be recycled soon, but I'll keep the photo), but last night's was a hoot. For whatever reason, one of the Japanese women, when giving a hug to one of the male guides, bent over so she was hugging his waist with her face pretty much in his crotch. The laughter went on for many, many minutes. (The guide told me that's not the first time it has happened, and that the Japanese women don't seem to get why we are in fits of laughter.)

Today we had a cruise on the Milford Sound, through the fiords. Again, stunning, stunning, stunning. You think you are used to all the beauty after a while, and then you turn around and your breath is taken away all over again.

It was a fantastic experience, not the least because every day ended with a hot shower and delicious meal. (This is the kind of through-hiking that I could get used to.) Life is definitely good!

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Queenstown

Here I am in Queenstown, which quite possibly could be the adventure capital of the world. Any storefront that isn't a restaurant or clothes shop is a company which will throw you off of or out of something (at great expense-- not to mention risk-- to you). There is a gorgeous lake here and it is surrounded by mountains, but other than looking, shopping, and adrenaline rushes, I'm not sure there's much to do here. Okay, there are about a zillion walks I could do, but as I'm about to head off tomorrow to do four days of hiking on the Milford Track, I decided I don't need to go for any punishing walks today.

While here, I am staying with (I finally figured it out exactly) the nephew of the sister of a girl (woman now) my aunt taught when she was here (probably about 40 years ago). I had sent out a bunch of emails in October to the contacts my aunt had given me, and they all wrote back saying of course I was welcome to stay, and some even suggested that they had relatives elsewhere in NZ. I just filed them away without thinking too much about them. After a few months I decided to check into where all these people were on a map, and WHO they were (according to my aunt's annotated contact list). One of them, the one who actually had sent me the most emails-- including one saying she had family in the south island-- wasn't actually on the list. I checked the name, checked the email address, and said (out loud of course) to the computer, "Who ARE you??" I did some digging and discovered that one of my initial contacts had suggested various relatives, and cc:ed them on her message, and one had picked up on it. Once I figured out who this "Karen" was, I decided it was okay to ask about her contact in Queenstown. So here I am with her nephew (by marriage, of course). (I think I actually have fewer degrees of separation to Kevin Bacon.)

So Marshall came to collect me from the bus stop yesterday. All I knew about him was that he was a builder, liked to play the drums, and was willing to have me stay. Things looked good (to me) when he pulled up in a Subaru Legacy. (I have an Outback myself.) Things looked iffy when he didn't get out of the car to greet me. (He did have the window rolled down though, so he could ask, "Lucie?".) Things looked iffier when I saw an open bottle of beer in his drink holder! (I didn't see him drink from it, though.) He took me back to his house, where his mum was just packing up to head home after a weekend at the lake. (She asked how I was connected, and when I told her, her response was "tenuous"... same as mine and my father's!) After I handed over a bottle of red wine we had a nice chat, and I decided all would be well.

Marshall seems very nice (he is housing a total stranger after all), but although he is probably my age, I definitely have just slipped back about 15 years in time (and I'm not just referring to all the 80's music that is playing in the shops). He is a builder, but he said that really he lives for music. As he had a captive audience, he played a couple of drum tunes for me. That meant that he put in a hip-hop CD, cranked the stereo up to 11, and bashed away. I wasn't quite sure how to respond. Does one leap up and shout "Bravo!" in instances such as this? I went with "That was nice." (Luckily that went on for only about 10 minutes, so my ears didn't start to bleed.)

Dinner was another trip back to post-college days. For appetizers he served me a cheese roll. This was a piece of white bread, rolled up with cheese spread (dear god!) inside, and grilled. (He bought a whole packet of these pre-rolled things at the grocery store... along with potato chips, candy bars, ice cream popsicles, those toaster tart things, and all sorts of other junk food.) The second appetizer was cheese-infused baby sausages. (At least they didn't come out of a can.) For the main, he did cook fish, but with that we had hash browns. He handed me some newspaper to use to cover my lap (no napkins or paper towels in sight), and we ate while watching The Simpsons. I am pretty sure I had that exact experience with a guy friend in 1995....

But, as I said, he is hosting me, and for that I am appreciative. (And it was nice to watch The Simpsons again.)